Tuesday, 27 August 2013

opposites attract

I've decided to try writing on my phone so I'm not sure how sucessful this will be since I have an HTC and I still haven't managed to get the hang of the autocorrect on it after using iPhone for the last 4 years. But I'm willing to try since once again I am out to London so I have a nice 40 minute train journey in which to write or attempt to write.

I'm not sure who I was talking to, I think it was my older brother but the saying is pretty common. I'm not really sure I believe this to be honest although my brothers logic was pretty good. His example was that if you're a confident person, you're likely to go talk to a shy and quiet person, like at a party a confident, outgoing person would be sutrounded with people making it harder to have conversation with them and more intimidating to join them. However, going up to a quiet person on their own is a lot less intimidating and much easier so that might be the option many people would choose. But I think that likes attract also, take me, I'm pretty talkative, actually I talk a lot and so a shy and quiet person who doesn't say a lot just annoys me a bit since conversations turn pretty one sided which isn't fun and makes me feel that the impression I'm giving is self involved and uncaring which is not who I am. Plus, I am one of those people who like to argue for no reason, I don't mean full blown angry arguments, but bickering about insignificant small things, I find it pretty amusing and fun. So my opposite wouldn't which would mean they are not a good match for me, obviously you don't need to be that picky about friends since you generally have more than one but this is more boyfriend or girlfriend (boyfriend for me since I'm straight).

I've just realised that I don't really want to kill my phone battery on the train journey so I'm going to cut short this post and I may come back and add to it later.

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